Community Guidelines

Welcome to PendoLetu Community

If you’re honest, kind, and respectful to others, you’ll always be welcome here. If you choose not to be, you may not last here. Our goal is to allow users to express themselves freely as long as it doesn’t offend others.

Everyone is held to the same standard on PendoLetu. We’re asking you to be considerate, think before you act, and abide by our community guidelines both on and offline. You heard that right: your offline behavior can lead to the termination of your PendoLetu account.

Below is a list of our community policies. If you violate any of these policies, you might be banned from PendoLetu. Seriously, don’t make us ban you from this site. But we shall be forced to do so if you do not comply with our policies. Once removed from this site, you will not be allowed back. Kindly report any behavior that violates our policies and read up on our safe dating tips.

PendoLetu is not for:

Nudity/Sexual Content

We’re not asking you to comb your hair to one side or even speak in full sentences; but please keep it classy and appropriate for public consumption. No nudity, no sexually explicit content, and don’t chronicle all of your sexual desires in your bio. Keep it clean.


Do not engage, or encourage others to engage, in any targeted abuse or harassment against any other user. This includes sending any unsolicited sexual content to your matches. Reports of stalking, threats, bullying, or intimidation, are taken very seriously.

Violence and Physical Harm

We do not tolerate violent, graphic, or gory content on PendoLetu, or any action or content that advocates for or threatens violence of any sort, including threatening or promoting terrorism. Physical assault, coercion, and any acts of violence are strictly prohibited.

Content that advocates for or glorifies suicide or self-harm is also not allowed. In these situations, we may take a number of steps to assist the user, including reaching out with crisis resources.

Hate Speech

Any content that promotes, advocates for, or condones racism, bigotry, hatred, or violence against individuals or groups based on factors like (but not limited to) race, ethnicity, religious affiliation, disability, gender, age, nation of origin, sexual orientation, or gender identity is not allowed.

Private Information

Don’t publicly broadcast any private information, yours or anyone else’s. This includes social security numbers, passports, passwords, financial information or unlisted contact information, such as phone numbers, email addresses, home/work address.


Don’t be fake. Be real instead. Don’t use PendoLetu to drive people to external websites via a link or otherwise.

Promotion or Solicitation

Soliciting other users is prohibited on PendoLetu. It’s fine to invite your matches to something that you’re doing, but if the purpose of your profile is to advertise your event or business, non-profit, political campaign, contest, or to conduct research, we may delete your account. While we’re excited that you’re doing a show next week, please don’t use PendoLetu to promote it.

Prostitution and Trafficking

Promoting or advocating for commercial sexual services, human trafficking or other non-consensual sexual acts is strictly prohibited and will result in your account being banned from PendoLetu.


PendoLetu has a zero-tolerance policy on predatory behavior of any kind. Anyone attempting to get other users’ private information for fraudulent or illegal activity may be banned. Any user caught sharing their own financial account information for the purpose of receiving money from other users may also be banned from PendoLetu.


Be yourself! Don’t pretend to be someone else.

Do not impersonate, or otherwise misrepresent affiliation, connection or association with, any person or entity. This includes parody accounts. Do not use other people’s photos as your profile photo.


You must be 18 years of age or older to use PendoLetu. As such, we do not allow images of unaccompanied minors. If you want to post photos of your children, please make sure that you are in the photo as well. If you see a profile that includes an unaccompanied minor, encourages harm to a minor, or depicts a minor in a sexual or suggestive way, please report it immediately.

Copyright and Trademark Infringement

If it’s not yours, don’t post it. If your PendoLetu profile includes any work that is copyrighted or trademarked by others, don’t display it, unless you are allowed to do so.

Illegal Usage

Don’t use PendoLetu to do anything illegal. If it’s illegal IRL, it’s illegal on PendoLetu.

One Person, One Account

PendoLetu accounts cannot have multiple owners, so don’t create an account with your friend or significant other. Additionally, please don’t maintain multiple PendoLetu accounts.

Third Party Apps

The use of any apps created by anyone other than PendoLetu that claim to offer our service or unlock special PendoLetu features (like auto-swipers) is not allowed.

Account Dormancy

PendoLetu is fun to use… all the time! Use PendoLetu at the coast, use PendoLetu while eating cake. Use PendoLetu when you’re out, use PendoLetu when in doubt! But, if you don’t log in to your PendoLetu account in 2 years, we may delete your account for inactivity.

Christian Site

We are a Christian dating and marriage support site. We promote godly marriage and believe that marriage works. We are not apologetic about this.


Your privacy is important to us and we will never rent or sell your information.


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