Welcome to PendoLetu. We are a Christian dating site and are glad that you chose to join us and find a godly mate here.

You may have spotted someone here and are wondering how to go about it. Unconfirmed data indicates that most relationships are initiated by men as compared to those initiated by women and other parties. In the olden days, especially in the African context, relationships were initiated by men. It could be the man, his father, mother, or even an uncle who spots a well-behaved girl from a good family and recommends her to the son.

Things have since changed and we are seeing women taking the bull by its horns and initiating this conversation, commonly called shooting your shot. The tide is changing; women are getting empowered and more expressive and do not mind going for what they want.

That said, men should know and occupy their position as leaders to take the initiative to approach a girl and table their agenda. It is encouraging to see a generation of bold men who go for the girl they want, even if it is in church or a matatu (bus). For the men in PendoLetu, start by looking at the photos uploaded here. Men are very visual. If you like what you see, check the profile in detail and thereafter slide into her DM and chat her up. Even if it does not work, you will have tried. Do not just sit and wait for things to happen. Be the man and play your role.

For the ladies, it is not conventional to approach a man but feel free to do it because we are in modern society and nothing prohibits you from going for what you want. Let us change the narrative. Women are very calculative and choose potential mates from the crowd very well. Go for what you desire. If it works, we shall praise the Lord all the way to the altar.

We must caution that before you take the initiative, please pray. Ask the Lord to order your steps. Prayerfully search for a partner on this platform and if you find one, do not waste time. The reason for being here is to find a godly partner. May the Lord go before you. Please bring back the report so as to encourage others.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (KJV)
9 Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. 10 For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up. 11 Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; But how can one be warm alone? 12 Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

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